Individual Therapy, Pre-marital Counselling, Couple/Marriage Therapy
Karen Lim

Karen Lim (KL/PJ)
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| Profile | Even in our day-to-day functioning, we struggle to just be who we are; being lovable and adequate. We are constantly coping with just being ourselves. With the added pressure of broken/loss of relationships, feelings of inadequacy, anxiety, stress, trauma, distress and other emotional problems, resolving such issues can be a daily struggle. Life may become grey, almost as if we fade into the background, watching life slip by, as if it doesn’t matter anymore. Do we then have the capacity to bring colour back into our lives by choosing to live differently?
Whatever challenging situation you may be facing, I invite you to take the step to get to the root of your issues, explore your options, and decide on how you want to live your life differently, and live it! For further information, visit: http://www.kinandkids.com/karen-lim/ |
| Professional Qualifications | Masters in Counseling, HELP University M.Sc. in Management Science and Operational Research (Warwick Business School, UK) Bachelor in Actuarial Science (City University, UK). |
| License No. | – |
| Fees/Rate | Fees differ depending on clinician, so please contact us to request for the fees of the therapist that you are interested to work with. |
| Tel/Mobile | +603-2181 8107 (Office) |
| karen@kinandkids.com | |
| Counselling Centre | Kin & Kids Kuala Lumpur (HQ) 10-8, Binjai 8 Premium Soho, No. 2, Lorong Binjai, 50450 Kuala Lumpur. Kin & Kids Petaling Jaya (Branch) 5-05-03, Block 5, VSQ@PJ City Centre, Jalan Utara, 46200 Petaling Jaya. |
Recent Articles
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Agreeing With God’s Word to Strengthen Self Esteem September 5, 2024 -
State-of-the-Art Christian Counselling: Top New Directions March 29, 2019 -
Manifesting Christ: Grace and Truth In and Through the Caregiver March 29, 2019 -
Thick and Thin Counselling March 29, 2019 -
Working with Couples: A Conceptual Framework March 29, 2019
Upcoming Events
March

Event Details
Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the
Event Details
Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the church setting, many lay counsellors have been rendering this important service to many needy people. While many Christians have both spiritual and emotional maturity through their studying of the Word of God and life’s experiences, their desire of helping others can be enhanced by undergoing some training in basic people-helping skills. This course aims to equip participants with the basic skills and knowledge to further strengthen lay counsellors in the church. The training will consist of two levels of 12 hours each.
Level 1 will examine the “what, why and how” of basic counselling skills. Fundamental counselling concepts and techniques will be discussed and examples shown from both secular and biblical narratives. Participants will learn how culture and developmental issues can be a hindrance to one’s effectiveness as a lay counsellor. The training will also increase one’s self-awareness so that the self will not be a stumbling block to helping others. Participants will see the importance of creating the right therapeutic environment with their help-seeker before any attempt to solve their problems. Participants will be shown how to build rapport with their counselees through attending skills and body language. Basic counselling skills such as restatement, paraphrase, reflection and questioning will be discussed, demonstrated and developed.
Level 2 consists of practical sessions where they can practise their learned skills using the triad method. Practice sessions will be video-taped and transcribed using the 4-column method to help in the consolidation of counselling skills and the heightening of self-awareness. The video recordings will be reviewed by a trained supervisor on a group and/or individual basis. When participants are more confident with these attending skills, they can then move on from that “lab environment” to be more effective in helping others as home-cell leaders, people-helpers or lay counsellors.
Dates :
Level 1 : Mar 14, 28, Apr 4 & 18,
Level 2 : Apr 25, May 9, 23 & 30
Time: 10am to 1pm
Venue: Pantai Baptist Church, 18, Jalan Pantai 9/7, Seksyen 9, 46000 Petaling Jaya, Selangor.
Registration Fees
RM400 (for members who sign up for full certification program package
Rm560 (for members)
RM800 (for non-members)
Time
March 14 (Saturday) 10:00 am - May 30 (Saturday) 1:00 pm
Purchase Tickets
Price RM560.00
Total Price RM560.00
Speaker
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Patrick Cheng
Patrick Cheng
Patrick Cheng has been in Christian ministry for over four decades. He holds a Bachelor of Theology from the Malaysia Bible Seminary, a M.A. in Pastoral Counselling from Alpha Omega International College and a Master in Counselling from HELP University. His passion is to come alongside church leaders to build Emotionally Healthy Churches through speaking engagements and training workshops on strong marriages, smart parenting effective counselling skills, emotional excellence, sexual addiction and other mental health issues. He is also a licensed counsellor at a professional counselling centre and a part-time lecturer at few local universities. He has authored a book entitled Different Sage for Different Stage: A Journey in Christian Counselling, examining the needs of different stages of life from a biblical and psychological perspective.
April

Event Details
Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the
Event Details
Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the church setting, many lay counsellors have been rendering this important service to many needy people. While many Christians have both spiritual and emotional maturity through their studying of the Word of God and life’s experiences, their desire of helping others can be enhanced by undergoing some training in basic people-helping skills. This course aims to equip participants with the basic skills and knowledge to further strengthen lay counsellors in the church. The training will consist of two levels of 12 hours each.
Level 1 will examine the “what, why and how” of basic counselling skills. Fundamental counselling concepts and techniques will be discussed and examples shown from both secular and biblical narratives. Participants will learn how culture and developmental issues can be a hindrance to one’s effectiveness as a lay counsellor. The training will also increase one’s self-awareness so that the self will not be a stumbling block to helping others. Participants will see the importance of creating the right therapeutic environment with their help-seeker before any attempt to solve their problems. Participants will be shown how to build rapport with their counselees through attending skills and body language. Basic counselling skills such as restatement, paraphrase, reflection and questioning will be discussed, demonstrated and developed.
Level 2 consists of practical sessions where they can practise their learned skills using the triad method. Practice sessions will be video-taped and transcribed using the 4-column method to help in the consolidation of counselling skills and the heightening of self-awareness. The video recordings will be reviewed by a trained supervisor on a group and/or individual basis. When participants are more confident with these attending skills, they can then move on from that “lab environment” to be more effective in helping others as home-cell leaders, people-helpers or lay counsellors.
Dates :
Level 1 : Mar 14, 28, Apr 4 & 18,
Level 2 : Apr 25, May 9, 23 & 30
Time: 10am to 1pm
Venue: Pantai Baptist Church, 18, Jalan Pantai 9/7, Seksyen 9, 46000 Petaling Jaya, Selangor.
Registration Fees
RM400 (for members who sign up for full certification program package
Rm560 (for members)
RM800 (for non-members)
Time
March 14 (Saturday) 10:00 am - May 30 (Saturday) 1:00 pm
Purchase Tickets
Price RM560.00
Total Price RM560.00
Speaker
-
Patrick Cheng
Patrick Cheng
Patrick Cheng has been in Christian ministry for over four decades. He holds a Bachelor of Theology from the Malaysia Bible Seminary, a M.A. in Pastoral Counselling from Alpha Omega International College and a Master in Counselling from HELP University. His passion is to come alongside church leaders to build Emotionally Healthy Churches through speaking engagements and training workshops on strong marriages, smart parenting effective counselling skills, emotional excellence, sexual addiction and other mental health issues. He is also a licensed counsellor at a professional counselling centre and a part-time lecturer at few local universities. He has authored a book entitled Different Sage for Different Stage: A Journey in Christian Counselling, examining the needs of different stages of life from a biblical and psychological perspective.

Event Details
Understanding Families, Supporting Healing, Strengthening Relationships Families are deeply interconnected. When one member is hurting, the impact is often felt by the whole family. As Scripture reminds us, “If one member
Event Details
Understanding Families, Supporting Healing, Strengthening Relationships
Families are deeply interconnected. When one member is hurting, the impact is often felt by the whole family. As Scripture reminds us, “If one member suffers, all suffer together” (1 Corinthians 12:26). In family life, emotional pain, conflict, and unhealthy behaviour rarely affect only one person. They often ripple through relationships, communication, and family functioning as a whole.
This workshop is designed to help lay leaders, church helpers, parents, caregivers, and those involved in pastoral care gain a clearer understanding of family dynamics from both a biblical and psychological perspective.
Rather than focusing only on the behaviour of one person, participants will learn to see the broader family patterns that may be shaping the problem.
These include:
- communication and interaction patterns
- closeness and emotional distance
- loyalty, dependence, and independence
- repeated conflict cycles
- generational patterns passed from one family member to another
Participants will also be introduced to practical family counselling concepts such as:
- Genograms
- Self-differentiation
- Emotional triangles
- Emotional cut-off
- Multigenerational transmission
Through teaching, case studies, role-plays, discussions, and practical activities, this workshop aims to equip participants with greater insight, compassion, and confidence in supporting individuals and families more effectively.
Learning Objectives
By the end of this workshop, participants will be able to:
- Understand the basic principles of family counselling from both biblical and psychological perspectives
- Recognise common family patterns that affect relationships and functioning
- Understand tools such as genograms, self-differentiation, emotional triangles, and emotional cut-off
- Identify how unhealthy patterns may be repeated across generations
- Apply practical insights to support healthier family relationships in ministry and helping contexts
Who Should Attend?
This workshop is suitable for:
- Lay leaders
- Cell group leaders
- Pastoral care teams
- Church helpers
- Parents and caregivers
- Anyone interested in understanding family dynamics and supporting families with greater wisdom and grace
Workshop Details
Dates: April 18, 25, May 9, May 16
Time: 9:30 am – 12:30 pm
Format: Hybrid
Venue: NACC Office, G-10-3A, Setia Walk, Puchong, Selangor
Online Option: Via Zoom for participants outside Klang Valley
Join Us
Come and grow in your understanding of family relationships so that you can care, guide, and support families more effectively in your ministry and community.
Fees:
RM200 for NACC member who sign up full certification program package
RM280 (for members)
RM400 (for non-members)
NACC Contact Hours Awarded: 2 hours
Contact Hours
2
Time
April 18 (Saturday) 9:30 am - May 16 (Saturday) 12:30 pm
Purchase Tickets
Price RM280.00
Total Price RM280.00
Speaker
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Dr. Yeo Pei Li
Dr. Yeo Pei Li
A licensed counsellor with the Malaysia's Board of Counsellor since 2003. She specializes in career counseling, family counseling, and using psychometric testing in her sessions, such as administering personality test, career interest test, aptitude test and couples test. Besides counseling, she lectures, gives talks and conducts workshops to a wide spectrum of society, i.e. from school children to corporate staff. Topics she has trained or lecture include Personal Development Series such as self-discovery, leadership, time management, motivation, paracounseling skills, sex education, career planning, resume writing and interviewing skills. Her doctorate is in counsellor education and supervision from Regent University. She is the Dean of Counselling at Alpha Omega International College, board member of NACC Malaysia and an active member of the Family Life Ministries at FGA KL, her home church. She was formerly a banker and has worked in the Customer Service Division and Training Department.
May

Event Details
Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the
Event Details
Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the church setting, many lay counsellors have been rendering this important service to many needy people. While many Christians have both spiritual and emotional maturity through their studying of the Word of God and life’s experiences, their desire of helping others can be enhanced by undergoing some training in basic people-helping skills. This course aims to equip participants with the basic skills and knowledge to further strengthen lay counsellors in the church. The training will consist of two levels of 12 hours each.
Level 1 will examine the “what, why and how” of basic counselling skills. Fundamental counselling concepts and techniques will be discussed and examples shown from both secular and biblical narratives. Participants will learn how culture and developmental issues can be a hindrance to one’s effectiveness as a lay counsellor. The training will also increase one’s self-awareness so that the self will not be a stumbling block to helping others. Participants will see the importance of creating the right therapeutic environment with their help-seeker before any attempt to solve their problems. Participants will be shown how to build rapport with their counselees through attending skills and body language. Basic counselling skills such as restatement, paraphrase, reflection and questioning will be discussed, demonstrated and developed.
Level 2 consists of practical sessions where they can practise their learned skills using the triad method. Practice sessions will be video-taped and transcribed using the 4-column method to help in the consolidation of counselling skills and the heightening of self-awareness. The video recordings will be reviewed by a trained supervisor on a group and/or individual basis. When participants are more confident with these attending skills, they can then move on from that “lab environment” to be more effective in helping others as home-cell leaders, people-helpers or lay counsellors.
Dates :
Level 1 : Mar 14, 28, Apr 4 & 18,
Level 2 : Apr 25, May 9, 23 & 30
Time: 10am to 1pm
Venue: Pantai Baptist Church, 18, Jalan Pantai 9/7, Seksyen 9, 46000 Petaling Jaya, Selangor.
Registration Fees
RM400 (for members who sign up for full certification program package
Rm560 (for members)
RM800 (for non-members)
Time
March 14 (Saturday) 10:00 am - May 30 (Saturday) 1:00 pm
Purchase Tickets
Price RM560.00
Total Price RM560.00
Speaker
-
Patrick Cheng
Patrick Cheng
Patrick Cheng has been in Christian ministry for over four decades. He holds a Bachelor of Theology from the Malaysia Bible Seminary, a M.A. in Pastoral Counselling from Alpha Omega International College and a Master in Counselling from HELP University. His passion is to come alongside church leaders to build Emotionally Healthy Churches through speaking engagements and training workshops on strong marriages, smart parenting effective counselling skills, emotional excellence, sexual addiction and other mental health issues. He is also a licensed counsellor at a professional counselling centre and a part-time lecturer at few local universities. He has authored a book entitled Different Sage for Different Stage: A Journey in Christian Counselling, examining the needs of different stages of life from a biblical and psychological perspective.

Event Details
Understanding Families, Supporting Healing, Strengthening Relationships Families are deeply interconnected. When one member is hurting, the impact is often felt by the whole family. As Scripture reminds us, “If one member
Event Details
Understanding Families, Supporting Healing, Strengthening Relationships
Families are deeply interconnected. When one member is hurting, the impact is often felt by the whole family. As Scripture reminds us, “If one member suffers, all suffer together” (1 Corinthians 12:26). In family life, emotional pain, conflict, and unhealthy behaviour rarely affect only one person. They often ripple through relationships, communication, and family functioning as a whole.
This workshop is designed to help lay leaders, church helpers, parents, caregivers, and those involved in pastoral care gain a clearer understanding of family dynamics from both a biblical and psychological perspective.
Rather than focusing only on the behaviour of one person, participants will learn to see the broader family patterns that may be shaping the problem.
These include:
- communication and interaction patterns
- closeness and emotional distance
- loyalty, dependence, and independence
- repeated conflict cycles
- generational patterns passed from one family member to another
Participants will also be introduced to practical family counselling concepts such as:
- Genograms
- Self-differentiation
- Emotional triangles
- Emotional cut-off
- Multigenerational transmission
Through teaching, case studies, role-plays, discussions, and practical activities, this workshop aims to equip participants with greater insight, compassion, and confidence in supporting individuals and families more effectively.
Learning Objectives
By the end of this workshop, participants will be able to:
- Understand the basic principles of family counselling from both biblical and psychological perspectives
- Recognise common family patterns that affect relationships and functioning
- Understand tools such as genograms, self-differentiation, emotional triangles, and emotional cut-off
- Identify how unhealthy patterns may be repeated across generations
- Apply practical insights to support healthier family relationships in ministry and helping contexts
Who Should Attend?
This workshop is suitable for:
- Lay leaders
- Cell group leaders
- Pastoral care teams
- Church helpers
- Parents and caregivers
- Anyone interested in understanding family dynamics and supporting families with greater wisdom and grace
Workshop Details
Dates: April 18, 25, May 9, May 16
Time: 9:30 am – 12:30 pm
Format: Hybrid
Venue: NACC Office, G-10-3A, Setia Walk, Puchong, Selangor
Online Option: Via Zoom for participants outside Klang Valley
Join Us
Come and grow in your understanding of family relationships so that you can care, guide, and support families more effectively in your ministry and community.
Fees:
RM200 for NACC member who sign up full certification program package
RM280 (for members)
RM400 (for non-members)
NACC Contact Hours Awarded: 2 hours
Contact Hours
2
Time
April 18 (Saturday) 9:30 am - May 16 (Saturday) 12:30 pm
Purchase Tickets
Price RM280.00
Total Price RM280.00
Speaker
-
Dr. Yeo Pei Li
Dr. Yeo Pei Li
A licensed counsellor with the Malaysia's Board of Counsellor since 2003. She specializes in career counseling, family counseling, and using psychometric testing in her sessions, such as administering personality test, career interest test, aptitude test and couples test. Besides counseling, she lectures, gives talks and conducts workshops to a wide spectrum of society, i.e. from school children to corporate staff. Topics she has trained or lecture include Personal Development Series such as self-discovery, leadership, time management, motivation, paracounseling skills, sex education, career planning, resume writing and interviewing skills. Her doctorate is in counsellor education and supervision from Regent University. She is the Dean of Counselling at Alpha Omega International College, board member of NACC Malaysia and an active member of the Family Life Ministries at FGA KL, her home church. She was formerly a banker and has worked in the Customer Service Division and Training Department.

