Introduction

“No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.” – C. S. Lewis

The death of a significant person in our life naturally brings about emotional, physical, and spiritual pain. Despite the comfort from Scriptures of our certain hope of eternal life with God, encountering such pain of loss all at once can be overwhelming and may leave one stuck and defenseless.

Grief is complex. Everyone experiences and handles grief differently. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, it also has physical, cognitive, behavioral, social, and philosophical dimensions. The impact of grief depends on factors such as personality, environment, and the loss itself. Sometimes grievers hide their pain because they are expected to be strong, and they fear others may feel uncomfortable if they share their struggles.

They may long for a quick fix but there is not one. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross asserted the reality that one will grieve forever:
“You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again, but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.”

Religion, spirituality, and views of the afterlife are important to the client’s process. If not dealt with properly, any unresolved grief issues can have negative and long term effects on the happiness of the griever.

Grief counseling may help a griever to work through the various stages and range of emotions felt after a loss. Helping them explore pre-existing, current, and potential belief systems can help them make meaning of the loss and find a sense of peace.

At the end of this workshop you will learn:

• The understanding of grief and loss
• The issues and factors in grief
• Practical approach in management of grief

Dates: 27 April 2024

Time: 9:30am to 12:30pm

Hybrid
Venue: Glad Tiding PJ
or
via ZOOM (for out of Klang Valley Participants)

Registration Fees

• RM70 (for members)
• RM50 (for members who sign up full LCC course)
• RM100 (for non-members)

NACC Contact Hours Awarded: 2 hours
(This is the part of the 60-hour Certificate in Lay Christian Counselling [LCC])

Payment

• Online registration at www.nacc-malaysia.org
• Registration via email and Online Transfer to Bank account, with your full name and membership number (if any) to:
  Name: National Association of Christian Counsellors,
  Malaysia MBB A/C No. 5122 3134 8681

Pengenalan

Coaching adalah mengenai keupayaan seseorang bertanya soalan yang betul daripada memberikan jawapan yang betul. Coaching pada asasnya menggunakan gaya perbualan berstruktur yang dibantu dengan pendekatan mendengar, menyoal dan memberi maklum balas serta membuat pemerhatian berkesan untuk membantu Orang yang DiCoach (coachee) meneroka dan memahami diri, potensi serta keadaan mereka sendiri. Seterusnya membolehkan mereka mencari penyelesaian mereka sendiri.

Coaching adalah satu bentuk pembelajaran, di mana coach menyokong coachee untuk mewujudkan suasana pembelajaran dan pembangunan kendiri dengan cara yang memberi manfaat kepada mereka dan organisasi mereka. Mengapa coaching penting berlaku di tempat kerja? Coaching adalah sesuatu yang melihat ke depan, fokus kepada hasil pembelajaran dan bagaimana hendak ke sana.

Pembicara: Helda Tan, PCC

Merupakan Life Coach, speaker dan trainer. Mempunyai pengalaman di Associate Leadership Coaching di The Breimer Group, Associate Mental Health Coach di Modern Health, USA, Associate Care Coach di Better Up, USA, Internal Mentor Coach di Yayasan Busur Emas, Indonesia, Transformative Coach, speaker dan Trainer di Helda Tan, Indonesia dan Reguler Radio Talkshow Speaker di Radio Heartline Indonesia. Helda Tan mempunya visi menolong sesiapa sahaja untuk mencipta keadaan di mana semua boleh hidup gembiran dan sihat secara mental dan emosi.

Kelayakan Profesional Helda Tan:

• ICF PCC
• Certified Professional Transformational Coach (Advance Practitioner) by Coach Masters Academy Global, Singapore
• Certified Master Performance Coach by JMC Coach Masters Academy, Malaysia
• Certified Executive Coaching by Coaching Indonesia, Indonesia
• Certified Neurosemantics NLP Practitioner by Michael Hall Metamind, USA_Indonesia
• Certified Counseling Practitioner by Yayasan Busur Emas, Indonesia
• Certified Behavior Consultant by Power Character, Indonesia
• Essential Licensed Trainer by MW International, Malaysia-Indonesia

Tarikh: 04 Mei 2024 (Sabtu)
Masa: 9.00AM – 12.00PM
Lokasi: Aplikasi Zoom

Pembayaran:

• RM50 untuk NACC members
• RM100 for non-members

(Contact Hours : 2 hours)

Pendaftaran via email dan Online Transfer ke Bank account, dengan nama penuh dan membership number (jika ada):
Nama: National Association of Christian Counsellors MBB A/C No. 5122 3134 8681
** Penting: Sila email slip pembayaran ke: office@nacc-malaysia.org

The Bible says that when one member of the body suffers, the whole body suffers with it (1 Cor 12:26). Applying this to the family context, we cannot isolate the individual problems from the family since everyone is emotionally and behaviourally intertwined. In view of this connectedness, problematic actions by one party will cause conflicts and dysfunctions in others, hence the need to handle them appropriately.

This training focuses on family behaviour rather than individual behaviour, highlighting patterns in communication and interaction, separateness and connectedness, loyalty and independence, and general adaptation in the context of the family. Understanding these characteristics within the family may explain why members of a family behave the way they do in a given situation and examining them helps to initiate engagement in families in ways that foster optimal family connectedness and regain healthy functioning

Target Audience

Parents, caregivers, lay helpers working with family, and those interested to learn more about family counselling.

Objectives

1. Participants will learn about the concepts of Family Counselling from both a biblical and a psychological perspective, understanding the purpose of genograms, self-differentiation, emotional triangles and cut-off.
2. Participants will understand how dysfunctional interactional patterns affect family members and being transferred from one generation to the next through the multigenerational transmission process.
3. Participants will be given case studies, role plays and other activities to experience and apply the theory and techniques to help individuals’ effect positive changes in their family system.

Dates: May 4, 11, 18 & 25 2024

Time: 9:30am to 12:30pm

Hybrid
Venue: Glad Tidings PJ
or
via ZOOM (for out of Klang Valley Participants)

Registration Fees

• RM280 (for members)
• RM200 (for members who sign up full LCC course)
• RM400 (for non-members)

NACC Contact Hours Awarded: 8 hours

(This is the part of the 60-hour Certificate in Lay Christian Counselling [LCC])

Payment

1. Online registration at www.nacc-malaysia.org
2. Registration via email and Online Transfer to Bank account, with your full name and membership number (if any):

Name: National Association of Christian Counsellors MBB A/C No. 5122 3134 8681

** Important: Please email your registration and bank in or transfer payment confirmation to: office@nacc-malaysia.org, otherwise we cannot register you for this course.