婚姻及家庭治疗师 Marriage & Family Therapist
Phoebe Yee
Phoebe Yee (KL/Chinese)
Areas of Service | We offer highly professional and ethical mental health and relationship therapy services for international expatriate and local Malaysian clients. We provide treatment for individuals, couples, and families of all ages, ranging from young children to the elderly.
For further information, visit: http://rekindletherapy.com/clinicians/phoebe-yee/ |
Profile | 我的专业家庭与婚姻心理治疗训练是以家庭系统治疗理论 (Family System Theory) 为经络,按每个家庭和本身个人的实际处境,务使受助者能从各个角度,对有关不同的家庭问题(夫妇关系、亲子教育、婚前辅导、婚后跟进、婚外情、人际关系、个人或孩子之精神与情绪问题等)作整全的治疗。能纯熟地运用辅导技巧在岗位上有效地协助受助者,建立和谐健康的家庭与人际关系。
多年的心理辅导和治疗经验中,深深体会人虽然外表显现自信、坚定甚至强悍,但面对生命的意义、限制、焦虑、分离、孤独时所产生的內在恐惧、焦虑和压力都不能与这些连结,这样的表现让人感到了害怕与沮丧,不但破坏家庭与人际关系;也会逐渐影响了生理和心理的健康。 本人心理治疗经验确实让您知道,多么艰难的生活您都能走到今天來尋求協助,其实這就是内在的潜能和资源,我愿意引導您(夫妇、个人或孩子)走过这段艰难的道路,明白自己被那些因素影响。在辅导与心理治療中开启您的觉察能力、选择能力和内在的潜能,使您有能力突破一切的障碍而破茧而出,重新建立一个健康的家庭、美好的人际关系和茁壮的自我。 在辅导和治疗中会以您为中心,跨越信仰的价值观,始终如一的真诚 (Congruence) 让您有安全感和我建立相互之关係。无条件和积极的爱,我相信能舒缓您的情绪,唯有在接纳中您会作出调整,这种新的能力是一种转化,也成为您的力量和帮助。 我以美国婚姻及家庭治疗学会 (AAMFT: American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy) 之要求心理辅导和治疗受助者,雷德雀博士 (Dr. Johnben Loy)是我马来西亚的督导老师,以协助我在治疗过程中完成AAMFT会员的认证要求。 |
Professional Qualifications | 基督教婚姻及家庭治疗硕士 (伯特利神学院) Master of Christian Marriage & Family Therapy (MCMFT) – Bethel Bible Seminary 神学道学士 (马来西亚神学院) Bachelor of Divinity – Seminari Theoloji Malaysia |
License No. | – |
Fees/Rate | Fees differ depending on clinician, so please contact us to request for the fees of the therapist that you are interested to work with. |
Tel/Mobile | +603-6201 7488/7489 or 019-369 8519 |
enquiries@rekindletherapy.com | |
Counselling Centre | Rekindle Centre for Systemic Therapy 42-2 Jalan 25/70A, Desa Sri Hartamas, 50480 Kuala Lumpur. |
Recent Articles
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State-of-the-Art Christian Counselling: Top New Directions March 29, 2019
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Manifesting Christ: Grace and Truth In and Through the Caregiver March 29, 2019
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Thick and Thin Counselling March 29, 2019
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Working with Couples: A Conceptual Framework March 29, 2019
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Healthy Directions through Group Counselling March 29, 2019
Upcoming Events
September

Event Details
Introduction Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the
Event Details
Introduction
Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the church setting, many lay counsellors have been rendering this important service to many needy people.
While many Christians have both spiritual and emotional maturity through their studying of the Word of God and life’s experiences, their desire of helping others can be enhanced by undergoing some training in basic people-helping skills. This course aims to equip participants with the basic skills and knowledge to further strengthen lay counsellors in the church. The training will consist of two levels of 12 hours each.
Level 1
Level 1 will examine the “what, why and how” of basic counselling skills. Fundamental counselling concepts and techniques will be discussed and examples shown from both secular and biblical narratives. Participants will learn how culture and developmental issues can be a hindrance to one’s effectiveness as a lay counsellor. The training will also increase one’s self-awareness so that the self will not be a stumbling block to helping others.
Participants will see the importance of creating the right therapeutic environment with their help-seeker before any attempt to solve their problems. Participants will be shown how to build rapport with their counselees through attending skills and body language. Basic counselling skills such as restatement, paraphrase, reflection and questioning will be discussed, demonstrated and developed.
Level 2
Level 2 consists of practical sessions where they can practise their learned skills using the triad method. Practice sessions will be video-taped and transcribed using the 4-column method to help in the consolidation of counselling skills and the heightening of self-awareness.
The video recordings will be reviewed by a trained supervisor on a group and/or individual basis. When participants are more confident with these attending skills, they can then move on from that “lab environment” to be more effective in helping others as home-cell leaders, people-helpers or lay counsellors.
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Dates: (8 Saturday afternoons)
2, 9, 23 & 30 Sept 2023
7, 14, 28 Oct and 4 Nov 2023
Time: 9:30am – 12:30pm
Hybrid
Venue:
Glad Tiding PJ
or
via ZOOM (for out of Klang Valley Participants)
Fees: RM560 for NACC member and RM800 for non-members
NACC Contact Hours: 16 contact hours will be awarded
(This is the part of the 60-hour Certificate in Lay Christian Counselling)
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Payment:
1. Online registration at www.nacc-malaysia.org
2. Registration via email and Online Transfer to Bank account, with your full name and membership number (if any) to:
Name: National Association of Christian Counsellors, Malaysia MBB A/C No. 5122 3134 8681
** Important: Please email your registration and bank in or transfer payment confirmation to : office@nacc-malaysia.org otherwise we cannot register you for this event.
Organised by: National Association of Christian Counsellors (NACC) Malaysia
Website: www.nacc-malaysia.org Email: office@nacc-malaysia.org
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Testimonies
“The program has been a good eye-opener – no doubt, people helpers in our churches can be more effective with the right basic skills to counsel! Contrary to common thinking, good intentions and compassion alone is never enough. Wrong way of doing right can be harmful sometimes! More importantly, the program was invaluable to make me more aware of my own internal processes when relating to a hurting soul. This is definitely a good place to start if you wish to be involved in a care ministry.” – Lim Fang Say, FGT Subang Jaya
“Contents were very well thought. Fundamentals embraced: SOLER position, counselling protocol and framework. Hand-outs were useful…duration per session were just right. Provides an overview to different approaches/style/techniques. Not just providing training, trainer, ensures there is much sharing from himself, through experience, and, open to the floor for interaction and sharing.” – Shirley, SIB KL
“I have benefitted a lot from attending the Basic Counselling Course. One of the things which I have learned and put into practice is attending and listening skills. As we practiced the skills in groups of three, we helped and encouraged each other. It is a great learning experience.” – Lee Kok Joo, The Life Chapel
“The video-taped sessions of our counselling was most beneficial – we learned much from analyzing body language, use of counselling techniques and client reactions. I also learned a very key lesson in counselling – not to offer advice, but rather to lead the client to his/her own solution through the use of techniques like paraphrasing and reframing.” – Pamela D, DUMC
“Previous counselling which I have attended, managed only to enhance my basic knowledge in the subject. However, in this course, it has equipped me with practical basic skills with enough confidence in the subject to apply them. The most important thing I have learnt is ‘Active Listening’. In the past, it was a habit of mine to dish out Scriptures and go on an ADVICE spree. With the acquired micro skills, I am confident in myself in playing the role of counsellor.” – Dr Wong Yoke Foong, Christian Life Centre, Setiawan
Time
September 2 (Saturday) 9:30 am - November 4 (Saturday) 12:30 pm
Purchase Tickets
Price RM560.00
Total Price RM560.00
Speaker
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Patrick Cheng
Patrick Cheng
He has been in Christian full-time ministry in both the church and para-church context for more than three decades. He is the president of NACC Malaysia. He is a part-time lecturer at a local university and a licensed counsellor at a professional counselling center, helping clients on both individual and couple therapy. He also conducts talks and workshops on emotional excellence, counselling skills, strong marriages and smart parenting. He holds a Bachelor in Theology, a Master in Pastoral Counselling and a Master in Counselling. He has been married for over 30 years and has two grown-up sons.
October

Event Details
Introduction Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the
Event Details
Introduction
Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the church setting, many lay counsellors have been rendering this important service to many needy people.
While many Christians have both spiritual and emotional maturity through their studying of the Word of God and life’s experiences, their desire of helping others can be enhanced by undergoing some training in basic people-helping skills. This course aims to equip participants with the basic skills and knowledge to further strengthen lay counsellors in the church. The training will consist of two levels of 12 hours each.
Level 1
Level 1 will examine the “what, why and how” of basic counselling skills. Fundamental counselling concepts and techniques will be discussed and examples shown from both secular and biblical narratives. Participants will learn how culture and developmental issues can be a hindrance to one’s effectiveness as a lay counsellor. The training will also increase one’s self-awareness so that the self will not be a stumbling block to helping others.
Participants will see the importance of creating the right therapeutic environment with their help-seeker before any attempt to solve their problems. Participants will be shown how to build rapport with their counselees through attending skills and body language. Basic counselling skills such as restatement, paraphrase, reflection and questioning will be discussed, demonstrated and developed.
Level 2
Level 2 consists of practical sessions where they can practise their learned skills using the triad method. Practice sessions will be video-taped and transcribed using the 4-column method to help in the consolidation of counselling skills and the heightening of self-awareness.
The video recordings will be reviewed by a trained supervisor on a group and/or individual basis. When participants are more confident with these attending skills, they can then move on from that “lab environment” to be more effective in helping others as home-cell leaders, people-helpers or lay counsellors.
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Dates: (8 Saturday afternoons)
2, 9, 23 & 30 Sept 2023
7, 14, 28 Oct and 4 Nov 2023
Time: 9:30am – 12:30pm
Hybrid
Venue:
Glad Tiding PJ
or
via ZOOM (for out of Klang Valley Participants)
Fees: RM560 for NACC member and RM800 for non-members
NACC Contact Hours: 16 contact hours will be awarded
(This is the part of the 60-hour Certificate in Lay Christian Counselling)
—
Payment:
1. Online registration at www.nacc-malaysia.org
2. Registration via email and Online Transfer to Bank account, with your full name and membership number (if any) to:
Name: National Association of Christian Counsellors, Malaysia MBB A/C No. 5122 3134 8681
** Important: Please email your registration and bank in or transfer payment confirmation to : office@nacc-malaysia.org otherwise we cannot register you for this event.
Organised by: National Association of Christian Counsellors (NACC) Malaysia
Website: www.nacc-malaysia.org Email: office@nacc-malaysia.org
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Testimonies
“The program has been a good eye-opener – no doubt, people helpers in our churches can be more effective with the right basic skills to counsel! Contrary to common thinking, good intentions and compassion alone is never enough. Wrong way of doing right can be harmful sometimes! More importantly, the program was invaluable to make me more aware of my own internal processes when relating to a hurting soul. This is definitely a good place to start if you wish to be involved in a care ministry.” – Lim Fang Say, FGT Subang Jaya
“Contents were very well thought. Fundamentals embraced: SOLER position, counselling protocol and framework. Hand-outs were useful…duration per session were just right. Provides an overview to different approaches/style/techniques. Not just providing training, trainer, ensures there is much sharing from himself, through experience, and, open to the floor for interaction and sharing.” – Shirley, SIB KL
“I have benefitted a lot from attending the Basic Counselling Course. One of the things which I have learned and put into practice is attending and listening skills. As we practiced the skills in groups of three, we helped and encouraged each other. It is a great learning experience.” – Lee Kok Joo, The Life Chapel
“The video-taped sessions of our counselling was most beneficial – we learned much from analyzing body language, use of counselling techniques and client reactions. I also learned a very key lesson in counselling – not to offer advice, but rather to lead the client to his/her own solution through the use of techniques like paraphrasing and reframing.” – Pamela D, DUMC
“Previous counselling which I have attended, managed only to enhance my basic knowledge in the subject. However, in this course, it has equipped me with practical basic skills with enough confidence in the subject to apply them. The most important thing I have learnt is ‘Active Listening’. In the past, it was a habit of mine to dish out Scriptures and go on an ADVICE spree. With the acquired micro skills, I am confident in myself in playing the role of counsellor.” – Dr Wong Yoke Foong, Christian Life Centre, Setiawan
Time
September 2 (Saturday) 9:30 am - November 4 (Saturday) 12:30 pm
Purchase Tickets
Price RM560.00
Total Price RM560.00
Speaker
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Patrick Cheng
Patrick Cheng
He has been in Christian full-time ministry in both the church and para-church context for more than three decades. He is the president of NACC Malaysia. He is a part-time lecturer at a local university and a licensed counsellor at a professional counselling center, helping clients on both individual and couple therapy. He also conducts talks and workshops on emotional excellence, counselling skills, strong marriages and smart parenting. He holds a Bachelor in Theology, a Master in Pastoral Counselling and a Master in Counselling. He has been married for over 30 years and has two grown-up sons.
November

Event Details
Introduction Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the
Event Details
Introduction
Lay counselling is the emotional and psychosocial assistance given to people in need by either staff or lay leaders who do not have a formal degree in counselling. In the church setting, many lay counsellors have been rendering this important service to many needy people.
While many Christians have both spiritual and emotional maturity through their studying of the Word of God and life’s experiences, their desire of helping others can be enhanced by undergoing some training in basic people-helping skills. This course aims to equip participants with the basic skills and knowledge to further strengthen lay counsellors in the church. The training will consist of two levels of 12 hours each.
Level 1
Level 1 will examine the “what, why and how” of basic counselling skills. Fundamental counselling concepts and techniques will be discussed and examples shown from both secular and biblical narratives. Participants will learn how culture and developmental issues can be a hindrance to one’s effectiveness as a lay counsellor. The training will also increase one’s self-awareness so that the self will not be a stumbling block to helping others.
Participants will see the importance of creating the right therapeutic environment with their help-seeker before any attempt to solve their problems. Participants will be shown how to build rapport with their counselees through attending skills and body language. Basic counselling skills such as restatement, paraphrase, reflection and questioning will be discussed, demonstrated and developed.
Level 2
Level 2 consists of practical sessions where they can practise their learned skills using the triad method. Practice sessions will be video-taped and transcribed using the 4-column method to help in the consolidation of counselling skills and the heightening of self-awareness.
The video recordings will be reviewed by a trained supervisor on a group and/or individual basis. When participants are more confident with these attending skills, they can then move on from that “lab environment” to be more effective in helping others as home-cell leaders, people-helpers or lay counsellors.
—
Dates: (8 Saturday afternoons)
2, 9, 23 & 30 Sept 2023
7, 14, 28 Oct and 4 Nov 2023
Time: 9:30am – 12:30pm
Hybrid
Venue:
Glad Tiding PJ
or
via ZOOM (for out of Klang Valley Participants)
Fees: RM560 for NACC member and RM800 for non-members
NACC Contact Hours: 16 contact hours will be awarded
(This is the part of the 60-hour Certificate in Lay Christian Counselling)
—
Payment:
1. Online registration at www.nacc-malaysia.org
2. Registration via email and Online Transfer to Bank account, with your full name and membership number (if any) to:
Name: National Association of Christian Counsellors, Malaysia MBB A/C No. 5122 3134 8681
** Important: Please email your registration and bank in or transfer payment confirmation to : office@nacc-malaysia.org otherwise we cannot register you for this event.
Organised by: National Association of Christian Counsellors (NACC) Malaysia
Website: www.nacc-malaysia.org Email: office@nacc-malaysia.org
—
Testimonies
“The program has been a good eye-opener – no doubt, people helpers in our churches can be more effective with the right basic skills to counsel! Contrary to common thinking, good intentions and compassion alone is never enough. Wrong way of doing right can be harmful sometimes! More importantly, the program was invaluable to make me more aware of my own internal processes when relating to a hurting soul. This is definitely a good place to start if you wish to be involved in a care ministry.” – Lim Fang Say, FGT Subang Jaya
“Contents were very well thought. Fundamentals embraced: SOLER position, counselling protocol and framework. Hand-outs were useful…duration per session were just right. Provides an overview to different approaches/style/techniques. Not just providing training, trainer, ensures there is much sharing from himself, through experience, and, open to the floor for interaction and sharing.” – Shirley, SIB KL
“I have benefitted a lot from attending the Basic Counselling Course. One of the things which I have learned and put into practice is attending and listening skills. As we practiced the skills in groups of three, we helped and encouraged each other. It is a great learning experience.” – Lee Kok Joo, The Life Chapel
“The video-taped sessions of our counselling was most beneficial – we learned much from analyzing body language, use of counselling techniques and client reactions. I also learned a very key lesson in counselling – not to offer advice, but rather to lead the client to his/her own solution through the use of techniques like paraphrasing and reframing.” – Pamela D, DUMC
“Previous counselling which I have attended, managed only to enhance my basic knowledge in the subject. However, in this course, it has equipped me with practical basic skills with enough confidence in the subject to apply them. The most important thing I have learnt is ‘Active Listening’. In the past, it was a habit of mine to dish out Scriptures and go on an ADVICE spree. With the acquired micro skills, I am confident in myself in playing the role of counsellor.” – Dr Wong Yoke Foong, Christian Life Centre, Setiawan
Time
September 2 (Saturday) 9:30 am - November 4 (Saturday) 12:30 pm
Purchase Tickets
Price RM560.00
Total Price RM560.00
Speaker
-
Patrick Cheng
Patrick Cheng
He has been in Christian full-time ministry in both the church and para-church context for more than three decades. He is the president of NACC Malaysia. He is a part-time lecturer at a local university and a licensed counsellor at a professional counselling center, helping clients on both individual and couple therapy. He also conducts talks and workshops on emotional excellence, counselling skills, strong marriages and smart parenting. He holds a Bachelor in Theology, a Master in Pastoral Counselling and a Master in Counselling. He has been married for over 30 years and has two grown-up sons.

Event Details
Introduction Suicide is a difficult and often taboo subject. However, we can all learn how to listen to and help someone who is having suicidal thoughts. This workshop will provide understanding
Event Details
Introduction
Suicide is a difficult and often taboo subject. However, we can all learn how to listen to and help someone who is having suicidal thoughts. This workshop will provide understanding and answers questions many of the crisis interventionists have about suicide, such as Why do people kill themselves? How do I ask someone if they are feeling suicidal? What do I say or do if they say they are suicidal? How do I deal with the strong emotions suicide generates?
Participants will learn basic information about suicide and basic practical skills for suicide prevention and intervention.
Objectives
At the end of the workshop, participants will be able to:
- Understand basic myths and facts about suicide
- Learn how to spot the signs and risk factors of suicide
- Identify the protective factors to reduce the risk of suicide
- Develop intervention skills and strategies when encountering people with suicidal risk
- Be aware of the elements of survivor grief
- Understand the feelings and reactions of suicide survivor
- Know about community referral sources
Target audience
Church staff, lay counsellors, parents and any others who wish to be more effective in helping someone who is having suicidal thoughts.
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Date: 18 Nov 2023 Saturday
Time: 9:30am to 12:30pm
Hybrid
Venue:
Glad Tiding PJ
or
via ZOOM (for out of Klang Valley Participants)
Fees: RM70 for NACC member and RM100 for non-member
NACC Contact Hours Awarded: 2 hours
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Payment
1. Online registration and payment below
2. Crossed cheque in the name of “National Assoc of Christian Counsellors” and send by post to the NACC office at:
No. 2-2B, Block K, Jalan PJU 1/3A, Sunway MAS Commercial Centre, 47301 Petaling Jaya, Selangor.
3. Registration via email and Online Transfer to Bank account, with your full name and membership number (if any):
Name: National Association of Christian Counsellors, Malaysia
MBB A/C No. 5122 3134 8681
** Important: For payment methods 2 & 3, please email your registration and bank in or transfer payment confirmation to: office@nacc-malaysia.org otherwise we cannot register you for this event.
Contact Hours
2
Time
(Saturday) 9:30 AM - 12:30 PM
Purchase Tickets
Price RM70.00
Total Price RM70.00
Speaker
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Dr. Yeo Pei Li
Dr. Yeo Pei Li
A licensed counsellor with the Malaysia's Board of Counsellor since 2003. She specializes in career counseling, family counseling, and using psychometric testing in her sessions, such as administering personality test, career interest test, aptitude test and couples test. Besides counseling, she lectures, gives talks and conducts workshops to a wide spectrum of society, i.e. from school children to corporate staff. Topics she has trained or lecture include Personal Development Series such as self-discovery, leadership, time management, motivation, paracounseling skills, sex education, career planning, resume writing and interviewing skills. Her doctorate is in counsellor education and supervision from Regent University. She is the Dean of Counselling at Alpha Omega International College, board member of NACC Malaysia and an active member of the Family Life Ministries at FGA KL, her home church. She was formerly a banker and has worked in the Customer Service Division and Training Department.